About Me
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I was born in 1944, into a family already with 9 children. We lived in Middletown Delaware where the winters were cold and the summers very hot. Our family added another 6 children after I was born bring the total to 16 children, which was not unusual in those days. There were several families around us with more and as many as 22 children.
This blog came out of from my experiences. As a young man in 1965 I began hitting women for what I thought were good reasons. But to my detriment it turned out to be the worst thing that I ever did. After 50 years I couldn't forgive myself for what I had done. So, I wrote a book (THE AGONY OF THE ABUSER) about it, and my life after that just to see if I would feel better, it didn't.
I started writing this blog because after my book was published, I found that I was not alone in feeling the guilt and shame. There were several men and women who told me of their violence towards loved ones. I thought a community of those who are beating their children or spouse would be helpful. In the community we will have discussions about real issues, honesty and the willingness to change our path.
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